How to Make Chores Fun So Kids Actually Do Them
Getting kids to do household chores can feel like an impossible task, but it doesn’t have to be a battle. By turning chores into a fun, engaging, and rewarding experience, kids are more likely to participate willingly.
1. Turn Chores Into a Game
Kids love games, so why not make cleaning feel like play? Try these fun ideas:
✔️ Beat the Timer: Set a timer for 5–10 minutes and challenge your child to finish their task before time runs out.
✔️ Treasure Hunt: Hide small rewards (stickers, coins, or treats) in areas that need cleaning, so kids get a surprise as they clean.
✔️ Dance & Clean: Play your child’s favorite music or make a cleaning playlist, and have a mini dance party while tidying up.
✔️ Sorting Challenge: If organizing toys or clothes, make it a race to see who sorts the most items by color or type.
Tip: Give your child a fun title like “Laundry Superhero” or “Dishwashing Champion” to make chores feel special.
2. Let Kids Choose Their Chores
Giving kids a choice gives them a sense of control. Instead of assigning chores, ask:
“Would you rather sweep the floor or help fold laundry?”
When kids feel like they have a say, they’re more willing to help without complaints.
Tip: Use a chore jar with different tasks written on pieces of paper—let kids pick one randomly for a fun surprise!
3. Create a Reward System
While chores should be part of everyday responsibilities, a small reward can be a great motivator.
✔️ Chore Chart with Stickers: Let kids earn stickers or stars for each completed task—after collecting a certain amount, they get a small reward.
✔️ Points System: Assign points to different chores (e.g., making the bed = 5 points, sweeping = 10 points). Kids can exchange points for extra screen time, a treat, or a fun outing.
✔️ Surprise Prizes: Every time they complete a task without complaining, they get to pick a mystery reward (a small toy, snack, or privilege).
Tip: Instead of material rewards, offer special privileges, like picking a movie for family night or staying up 15 minutes later.
4. Make It a Family Activity
Chores feel less like "work" when everyone does them together. Try:
✔️ Team Cleaning: Assign teams (e.g., “Mom & Son vs. Dad & Daughter”) and see who finishes first.
✔️ Cleaning Relay Race: Set up different “stations” (e.g., one person vacuums, another wipes tables), and rotate every 5 minutes.
✔️ Themed Cleaning Days: Have “Superhero Saturday” where everyone pretends to be superheroes saving the house from dust.
Tip: Narrate chores like a story or adventure (e.g., “We’re on a secret mission to rescue lost socks from the laundry basket!”).
5. Use Technology & Apps
Make chores feel modern and interactive with fun apps:
✔️ ChoreMonster – Turns chores into a game where kids earn points and rewards.
✔️ OurHome – Allows families to assign chores, track progress, and set rewards.
✔️ Tody – Makes cleaning tasks feel like a quest with color-coded progress tracking.
Tip: If your child loves screens, allow extra game or YouTube time as a reward for completing chores.
6. Offer Age-Appropriate Chores
Kids may resist chores if they feel too difficult. Assign tasks based on age:
Toddlers (2–4 years old): Picking up toys, wiping spills, putting clothes in a hamper.
Young Kids (5–7 years old): Setting the table, feeding pets, making the bed.
Older Kids (8–12 years old): Sweeping, vacuuming, washing dishes, folding laundry.
Teens (13+ years old): Cooking simple meals, mowing the lawn, washing the car.
Tip: Praise kids for their efforts, even if the task isn’t perfect—encouragement builds motivation!